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Pet memorial photobooks.

We do not make one. Here is what the format does well, what to watch out for, and how it compares with the thing we do make.

We do not make pet memorial photobooks. If that is what you came for, this page will tell you what to look for in one and where the format works, and then get out of your way. We make a single painted portrait instead, and the last section is honest about which of the two suits which household. Nothing here is going to pretend a canvas is a book.

Watercolour illustration of an open photo album showing a Labrador outdoors and resting at home.
Illustration for this guide. Small Goodbyes does not sell photobooks.

What a pet memorial photobook actually is

A printed, bound book of photographs of one animal, usually assembled by the owner in an online editor and printed to order: hardback or softback, twenty to a hundred pages, with room for captions. Every general photobook printer will make one; there is no need for a specialist, and a "pet memorial" label on the same product usually means the same book at a higher price.

When a photobook is the right answer

  • When there are a lot of photographs and they span years. A book is the only format on this list that handles fifteen years of an animal in one object. A single frame cannot.
  • When more than one household is grieving. You can print three copies. You cannot print three of a collar.
  • When children are involved. A book is something a child can hold, turn, and take to their own room, and a good deal of the work of grief in children happens through handling things. Our guide to explaining a pet's death to a child covers the rest of that.
  • When the photographs include people. The pictures worth keeping are usually of the animal with somebody, and those do not go on a wall as easily as a portrait does.

What to watch for if you make one

Choose fewer photographs than you want to. A book of forty pictures is read; a book of three hundred is opened once. Write the captions in the first sitting, while you still know which walk that was and which year: the pictures survive perfectly well and the context evaporates within about two years, which is the single most common regret people describe. And print two copies, because the one you keep will be handled.

Why we do not make one

Because it would be a worse book than a printer who does nothing else, and because we would be charging for the layout software rather than for anything of ours. We make one thing and we would rather make it properly.

What we make instead, and when it is the better answer

A painted portrait, worked from a single photograph you already have, in oil, watercolour, charcoal, line or pastel, printed to order in the UK. It is a different object doing a different job. The book is a record you take down and open, usually on purpose, usually rarely. The portrait is on the wall, so you meet it without choosing to, which is the point and also the reason some people would rather not have one for a while.

Plenty of households end up with both, and there is no competition between them. If the picture is what you want, the preview is free and watermarked, and nothing is printed until you have said yes to it. If it is the wider range you are after, memorial ideas covers everything from a garden stone to a written record, and keepsakes covers the things worth keeping. The whole remembering stage is here.

Written by Craig Fearn, Small Goodbyes. Last updated .

Other questions you may have

Do you make pet memorial photobooks?
No. We make a single painted portrait from one photograph, and nothing else. A general photobook printer will make you a better book than we would, and a "pet memorial" label on the same product usually just means the same book at a higher price.
Is a photobook or a portrait better for remembering a pet?
They do different jobs. A book handles fifteen years of photographs and can be printed more than once, so it suits families where several people are grieving or where children want something to hold. A portrait hangs on a wall, so you meet it without deciding to, which is either exactly what you want or exactly what you do not want yet. Plenty of households have both.
What should I watch out for when making a pet photobook?
Use fewer photographs than you want to, because a book of forty pictures gets read and a book of three hundred gets opened once. Write the captions in the first sitting: the pictures survive fine and the context does not, and forgetting which walk it was is the regret people describe most often. Print two copies, because the one you keep will be handled.